We could all use tips on how to appear more confident once in a while, especially now when times are tough for some of us and confidence may be shaken.
There are simple but effective techniques you can use in your every day life to increase other people's good impression of you and boost your confidence level. Power schmoozing is what the experts call it. Here’s what you need to know when you want to look more confident at a meeting, interview, or anytime you want to make a great impression:
- Get Closer. Stand up straight, or sit up with good posture and lean a little forward…you’ll command more attention. People who are uncertain or fearful have a tendency to lean back in their chairs to create distance, says author Terri Mandell.
- Look People in the Eye. Averting your eyes or not making good eye contact can broadcast insecurity.
- Give a Compliment. Nothing commands attention like making someone feel good.
- Ask For a Favor. When you ask for something, whether it’s a glass of water or a copy of a report, it helps to break the ice, and gives you an opportunity to connect. It also can help you to level the playing field says Pam Zarit, a New York media trainer.
Implement these easy steps and you'll see an immediate difference in your business and personal life!
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